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Why do humans love the ocean so much? Why is it that we enjoy going to the beach? What draws us to the open fields, meadows, and water?

As it turns out, our brains are simply wired this way. From an evolutionary, self-preservation standpoint, the open spaces would have allowed us to see danger sooner, to be able to react more quickly.

This is why being in these spaces provides us with a sense of calm and relaxation. We feel subconsciously feel safer in these places, and it is because of our brain’s wiring.

This means that we should always make the effort to find places like that to relax. If you’re feeling especially stressed for any reason, or you just want to calm your mind and relax, seek out the ocean or an open area. Also, consider carefully where you move, as living somewhere without this sort of space could be a mistake.

Enjoy this episode, and if you like the show, please leave a rating and review in iTunes.

Key Takeaways:

  • Humans love open space, greenery, water, trees, flowers, etc
  • This is not just because it looks pretty
  • Our brains are evolved to enjoy this sort of thing for survival
  • So we need to understand our primal brains, and what it is that will appeal to it
  • If you’re looking for somewhere to live, take this into account
  • Spend time in these places to feel calmer, more at peace

Resources:

“Riveted: The Science of Why Jokes Make Us Laugh, Movies Make Us Cry, and Religion Makes Us Feel One with the Universe” by Jim Davies

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Understanding how to convince somebody to do something is one of the most important skills that you will ever learn in life. While it’s obviously important in business, being persuasive is essential to almost to accomplishing anything that you want to accomplish, because you will nearly always have to convince others of your idea and point of view.

Josh Muccio is the host the podcast The Pitch, which is currently starting on its second season.

The Pitch is the Shark Tank of podcasts. On it, founders of startups pitch investors for money, trying to convince them to invest in their idea or business. So it’s safe to say that Josh knows a thing or two about pitching.

This episode goes through the specific steps that you need to understand, with certainty and clarity, when pitching. The things you need to practice, the angle you need to take with your words, and how you must present yourself.

If you would like to know how to be more persuasive in your life, this episode is for you! And remember to checkout season 2 of The Pitch.

Key Takeaways:

  • How you say something is almost just as important as what you say
  • Always be excited, be exciting, and be memorable
  • Don’t get too focused about the features of what you do. Focus on the broad overview
  • Lead with benefits, not with features
  • Make sure that the target of your pitch fully understands the problem
  • Focus on hitting the reptilian, non-thinking, but more feeling, side of your brain
  • Understand that, somewhere along the process, you have to sell you and your team, which means you must have a tremendous amount of faith in yourself and your team
  • Name accomplishments of team, forget names at first
  • Leverage your own choice as a founder, and that you’re looking for someone and something specific
  • Don’t be worried about people stealing your idea! Instead, execute yourself!
  • Involve other people in your dream and along the journey
  • Investors invest in people more than ideas

Resources:

The Pitch Podcast

The Pitch on iTunes

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Understanding how to convince somebody to do something is one of the most important skills that you will ever learn in life. While it’s obviously important in business, being persuasive is essential to almost to accomplishing anything that you want to accomplish, because you will nearly always have to convince others of your idea and point of view.

Josh Muccio is the host the podcast The Pitch, which is currently starting on its second season.

The Pitch is the Shark Tank of podcasts. On it, founders of startups pitch investors for money, trying to convince them to invest in their idea or business. So it’s safe to say that Josh knows a thing or two about pitching.

This episode goes through the specific steps that you need to understand, with certainty and clarity, when pitching. The things you need to practice, the angle you need to take with your words, and how you must present yourself.

If you would like to know how to be more persuasive in your life, this episode is for you! And remember to checkout season 2 of The Pitch.

Key Takeaways:

  • How you say something is almost just as important as what you say
  • Always be excited, be exciting, and be memorable
  • Don’t get too focused about the features of what you do. Focus on the broad overview
  • Lead with benefits, not with features
  • Make sure that the target of your pitch fully understands the problem
  • Focus on hitting the reptilian, non-thinking, but more feeling, side of your brain
  • Understand that, somewhere along the process, you have to sell you and your team, which means you must have a tremendous amount of faith in yourself and your team
  • Name accomplishments of team, forget names at first
  • Leverage your own choice as a founder, and that you’re looking for someone and something specific
  • Don’t be worried about people stealing your idea! Instead, execute yourself!
  • Involve other people in your dream and along the journey
  • Investors invest in people more than ideas

Resources:

The Pitch Podcast

The Pitch on iTunes

Swannies Blue Light Blocking Glasses

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Show Notes: JamesSwanwick.com/242

Most people don’t have a huge problem with alcohol, and many people in my 30 Day No Alcohol Challenge program have come to it, not because they have a severe problem, but because they want more out of life!

But there are also people who should not be drinking because of some early warning of alcoholism signs that are starting to show up.

But how do you know?? What are the signs to watch out for??

This episode is all about how you can know you have a problem and take care of it before it becomes a bigger issue. Listening carefully, and check the list below, to make sure you’re not headed this direction. If you’re at all worried, or if you just want more from life, consider taking the 30 Day No Alcohol Challenge.

You could be headed towards alcoholism if:

  • You need to drink more to get the same effect, you’re heading the direction of alcoholism
  • You spend a lot of time drinking and recovering
  • You continue to drink even though it harms your relationship
  • You cannot quit or control your drinking
  • You experience withdrawal symptoms

Resources:

How to Treat Withdrawal Symptoms (video)

“30 Day No Alcohol Challenge” by James Swanwick (book)

30 Day No Alcohol Challenge

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Most people don’t have a huge problem with alcohol, and many people in my 30 Day No Alcohol Challenge program have come to it, not because they have a severe problem, but because they want more out of life!

But there are also people who should not be drinking because of some early warning of alcoholism signs that are starting to show up.

But how do you know?? What are the signs to watch out for??

This episode is all about how you can know you have a problem and take care of it before it becomes a bigger issue. Listening carefully, and check the list below, to make sure you’re not headed this direction. If you’re at all worried, or if you just want more from life, consider taking the 30 Day No Alcohol Challenge.

You could be headed towards alcoholism if:

  • You need to drink more to get the same effect, you’re heading the direction of alcoholism
  • You spend a lot of time drinking and recovering
  • You continue to drink even though it harms your relationship
  • You cannot quit or control your drinking
  • You experience withdrawal symptoms

Resources:

How to Treat Withdrawal Symptoms (video)

“30 Day No Alcohol Challenge” by James Swanwick (book)

30 Day No Alcohol Challenge

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Do you feel like you’re constantly seeing girls, or anyone really, that you want to approach, but you have this little voice inside your head saying they’re probably too busy, or they don’t want to you, etc?

If so, you’re like most people! Everyone struggles with this! But the key is to take the fear and anxiety you’re feeling, and turn it into excitement! Take the negative of fear and turn it into the positive of excitement

In addition, understand that most people, in fact, love to be approached, and love the attention! By approaching someone on the street randomly, you are probably actually doing them a favor that they will enjoy!

There’s a lot more to get into on this episode, so enjoy, and commit to approaching people you want to meet, even when you’re scared!

Key Takeaways:

  • Transfer fear into excitement! Use the energy of fear for something good in the moment
  • Don’t let yourself live with the regret of not approaching someone that you want to
  • You never know what will come from sucking it up, and just jumping into a conversation despite the fear
  • Think about what the worst is that could happen. It’s usually not that bad!
  • Tell yourself that the moment you’ve said “hi,” you’ve already won!
  • Don’t let the idea that the person you want to approach doesn’t want to speak to you hold you back
  • Understand that the majority of time, people like attention, so give it to them!

Resources:

People Skills Reboot

RSDMax on Youtube

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Show notes: JamesSwanwick.com/241

Do you feel like you’re constantly seeing girls, or anyone really, that you want to approach, but you have this little voice inside your head saying they’re probably too busy, or they don’t want to you, etc?

If so, you’re like most people! Everyone struggles with this! But the key is to take the fear and anxiety you’re feeling, and turn it into excitement! Take the negative of fear and turn it into the positive of excitement

In addition, understand that most people, in fact, love to be approached, and love the attention! By approaching someone on the street randomly, you are probably actually doing them a favor that they will enjoy!

There’s a lot more to get into on this episode, so enjoy, and commit to approaching people you want to meet, even when you’re scared!

Key Takeaways:

  • Transfer fear into excitement! Use the energy of fear for something good in the moment
  • Don’t let yourself live with the regret of not approaching someone that you want to
  • You never know what will come from sucking it up, and just jumping into a conversation despite the fear
  • Think about what the worst is that could happen. It’s usually not that bad!
  • Tell yourself that the moment you’ve said “hi,” you’ve already won!
  • Don’t let the idea that the person you want to approach doesn’t want to speak to you hold you back
  • Understand that the majority of time, people like attention, so give it to them!

Resources:

People Skills Reboot

RSDMax on Youtube

Show notes: JamesSwanwick.com/241

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Show Notes: JamesSwanwick.com/240

If you, like many in my program are giving up alcohol here at the beginning of 2017, then you will need some advice and real-world tips about how to deal with alcohol withdrawal, and that is what this episode is all about.

While I do advocate the use of certain supplements, it’s important to always try the most natural remedies first, before moving on to anything else.

However, sometimes quitting alcohol can be a very difficult thing, and my goal is to make it as easy as possible for you to accomplish. So listen to this episode to understand how to handle a life without alcohol, until you get to the point where you really just don’t even want to drink anymore!

Key Takeaways:

  • When you first give up alcohol, in the first few days you may shock your system, and not see the benefits right away. After that time, you definitely will
  • Go for a walk, breath, and meditate
  • Try natural remedies first

Supplements:

  • NAC
  • Lithium Orotate
  • Vitamin C
  • B Vitamins
  • Niacin
  • Vitamin A
  • Milk Thistle
  • Kudzu

Resources:

30DayNoAlcoholChallenge.com

“30 Day No Alcohol Challenge” by James Swanwick

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Almost everyone can fit into one broad category of their relationship to alcohol, and this episode is about exploring what those different types of relationships mean for everyone, and what is ideal.

A lot of people are what is considered “social drinkers.” It doesn’t really seem like they have any big problem with alcohol, but it just happens to be a part of almost all of their social interactions. This was the kind of drinker I was.

In some ways this level can be the most sneaky, because it’s very difficult to realize that you have a problem, or that your life could be so much more without the alcohol. But it’s absolutely the case!

So enjoy this episode exploring the different types of relationships that people can have with alcohol, and then consider joining the January group of the 30 Day No Alcohol Challenge!

Key Takeaways:

  • A lot of people are what are considered “social drinkers,” people who drink on a regular basis, it doesn’t feel like an addition, but it is in sneaky ways
  • Alcohol is simply not healthy, regardless of the amount
  • If you feel like you need a drink to relieve your stress, it doesn’t mean you’re an alcoholic, but you should find other ways to accomplish the same thing
  • When you quit, and perhaps stay quit, you’ll realize that almost everything in your life improves
  • After you quit alcohol for 30 days, you can always go back if you want to. Most, however, would rather stay non-alcohol after they experience what it is like

Resources:

“30 Day No Alcohol Challenge” by James Swanwick

30DayNoAlcoholChallenge.com

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