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There are a lot of extremely successful people in measurements of finance, fitness, and many other categories of life, who simply can’t seem to be able to figure out the romantic and relationship side of things, so that is the subject that I’m tackling with Heather Ann Havenwood on today’s episode of the James Swanwick Show.

Heather digs into my own life, past relationships, some of my own preconceived notions about women, what I look for, what has been difficult for me in the past. In fact, this episode basically turned into a “get James a wife” conversation. If you want some practical advice on understanding the often confusing world of relationships, this episode is for you! Hope you enjoy!

Key Takeaways:

• Marriage, for the woman, is often about security
• Men have to quickly decipher between “crazy” or “psycho” in a woman
• We tend to attract what we are
• Look for a mate who is at a similar level of self-esteem as you
• Shifting self-esteem is a core change, very difficult to change, which is why it’s better to look for someone who is at a similar level as you rather than to try to change them
• Feminine and masculine energy are more powerful when they come together than apart
• Time tested success principles show that masculine and feminine come together for more success together than apart
• If you may want a prenup, bring it up very early on
• Be upfront with yourself and people you date about if you want marriage or not
• Understand how environments shape and affect those in them, and look in the categories that match what you’re looking for
• Understand the energy that you are looking for in a partner

Resources:

HeatherHavenwood.com

Podcast: HeatherHavenwood.com/podcast

DatingTriggers.com

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Twitter

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Show Notes: JamesSwanwick.com/253

Today’s episode is a bit off the cuff. I’m sharing an Uber with my mate Brad Blanks, on the way to the airport. We’re both trying to switch our flights, but we manage to talk about some really interesting topics that I think you’ll enjoy and find useful.

We get into how I am able to travel the world through entrepreneurialism, why it’s extremely worth it to get coaches, educate yourself, and put effort and money into building the you of the future, and how sometime it can be clarifying to focus on what you don’t want, to better understand exactly what you do want. Enjoy!

Key Takeaways:

• 90% of success is just showing up
• Entrepreneurialism can give you the opportunity to travel the world without worrying about stopping the flow of money
• Get coaches, put effort and money into learning, because it pays off down the road
• Focus on what you do not want first, to clarify what you do want
• Never rest on your success, always be looking for what the next thing is

Resources:

Are You Still Stick? Youtube video

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The choices that you make about how you structure your day, what you spend your time on, the order that you do things in, has a very direct effect on how productive you are able to be and, as a consequence, how successful you are able to be.

Today I am going through the details of how I structure my day, and specifically how I do so today versus earlier in my life when I was less productive. It’s the little choices that I make throughout the day that, individually don’t seem like much, but add up to a large advantage,

For instance, most people listen to pump-up music or something like that when they’re working out, but I listen to educational material. This simple choice ensures that I get an additional 30-90 minutes of education every single day, and over time, that adds up to far more knowledge.

That is just one of the examples of how I make consciously and very purposeful choices to make sure I am able to get the most out of every day. Learn the rest of them on this episode of the James Swanwick Show!

Key Takeaways:

• Use a calendar. Too many people don’t even take that step
• Making a practice of putting everything in your calendar will help you get them done
• Put anything in a calendar that you really want to make sure happens
• Give yourself an “impossible,” or difficult, deadline for projects that you want to make happen
• Use video conferencing if you work with people remotely
• Write down your goals. This gives you a far better chance of accomplishing
• Consider a personal assistant, depending on where you are in your career and if it makes sense
• Understand exactly the value of your time to make a smart decision about paying for people to help you
• Do multiple things at the same time, like learning while exercising
• Consider using Binaural beats if you need to really focus for a bit
• Build a team to help you
• If you don’t have a lot of money, look to trade services
• In terms of getting organized, eliminating, and then delegate
• If you’re the smartest person in the room, you’re in the wrong room
• Put yourself in an environment of people who will push you and make you grow

Resources:

ScheduleOnce.com

Binaural Beats on Youtube

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Show Notes: JamesSwanwick.com/251

Dan Peña is known around the world as the “50 Billion Dollar Man,” because his mentees cumulatively have created over 50 billion dollars worth of wealth. There are not too many, if any, people who can make a claim like that, and today he is bringing his passion and fire to help others create wealth to the James Swanwick Show.

We talk about how President Trump will change the world, why a first impression is so vital, how to grow a pair, why you must get comfortable being uncomfortable, and how to get the money that you need to build and grow a business.

If you’ve felt like you weren’t living up to your full potential before, in business and in life, Dan Peña is the guy to help you get that extra boost, and that is the knowledge and passion that he is bringing to the show today. Enjoy!

Key Takeaways:

• You only have one chance to make a good first impression, so craft it carefully
• In a lot of ways, the world has gone soft. People need backbone to survive and thrive
• Build a personal foundation. Know who you really are
• You have to get comfortable being uncomfortable
• Understand where you really want to go, and the sacrifices and decisions that will get you there
• There's more money available to you than you think
• Your parents usually mess you up with the mindset they instill in you
• The majority of the world is unhappy with what they do, and that should not be
• There is only one standard: Be all you can be
• Most people, at the end of the day, want to be liked, and this desire is holding them back

Resources:

Website                       http://www.danpena.com/

About Dan Peña          http://www.danpena.com/about/

Podcasts                      http://www.danpena.com/ask-the-50-billion-dollar-man-podcast/podcasts/

QLA Seminar               http://www.danpena.com/seminar/

SOCIAL MEDIA:

Facebook                             https://www.facebook.com/danpenasr

Twitter                                https://twitter.com/danspena

Linkedin                               https://www.linkedin.com/in/danpena

For any other inquiries (e.g. book, appointments, etc.), please emailthelmag@guthriecastle.com

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